When I first saw it in the backyard, I was horrified. My mother’s peony bush was infested with ants! They were crawling all over its tightly wadded flower buds… which, I knew from the year before, bloomed in a most striking fuchsia color.
Upon closer examination, however, the buds appeared to be healthy.
So what were the ants doing?
After some online research, I was relieved. My mother’s peony bush was fine! The ants were simply licking the sweet nectar juice that oozes from the surface of the buds.
But I also learned something else—something that got my juices going. Ants are believed to have a symbiotic relationship to peony flowers. Sometimes, the nectar runs so thick on the flower buds, that they don’t open. Ants are thought to help the peonies flowers by thinning out this sticky layer.
Additionally, the presence of ants on the peonies may even scare off other insects who are harmful to the peonies!
Immediately, I saw a metaphor in all of this. There are good things that naturally happen when we do what we’re created to do, and when we love what we’re created to love. The ants weren’t consciously trying to open the blooms. They weren’t listening to religious ant leaders guilting them into doing good deeds. The ants simply love nectar, and as a result, they help beautiful flowers to bloom. Likewise, when our lives become similarly focused on the “nectar” of God’s wisdom and insights (those words we were created to live by) we will make an impact on the world. We don’t have to try. We don’t have to put on airs, or “preach,” or do anything unnatural. Simply being “in love” is enough, and we can trust the results to God.
“Where has your beloved gone,
O most beautiful among women?
Where has your beloved turned,
That we may seek him with you?”
“My beloved has gone down to his garden,
To the beds of balsam,
To feed in the gardens, and gather lilies.
I am my beloved’s and my beloved is mine,
He is the One who grazes among the lilies.”
~Song of Songs 6:1-3 ~
Why do we think we need to struggle to perform what we think we need to do? The ants were just being ants and never noticed the results of what they did. Maybe our “best work” will be unnoticed by us and will only benefit others. If we can avoid the toxins of life (and bad relationships). Just be you and do what you do.
Thank you, Jerry, that was well put. The ants, and myself, say Amen :-)
Spot on Pamela. We don’t need to try to be like someone else. We
Just need to be who we are in Christ, have a desire to do what God created us for and we will be happy. What we have been created for, our gift, will
always make room for us in the Body of Christ. ❤️
Love you Uncle Sam!
Thanks again for another beautiful story.
Very nice. Say hi to Vinney! My maternal grandmother’s favorite flower. We had rows of them many places near the tar-papered 1880’s homestead cabin that my grandfather had built for her. I lived there almost seven years as a toddler. Mostly pink, but she had a few white ones, too, I think.